Sunday, April 06, 2008
hi lb! what about changi airport t3? i've never been there before.
hey piggo, just like what gundu has said, i don't think it's love,yet. you may feel unsure of this, because he's the one who has always been there with you when you needed the utmost emotional support. one example is the time when you broke up with ur ex. yes, you would certainly feel touched and grateful towards him, because he is nice to you. and of course, you grow to like him more each day as the two of you are spending time with each other everyday. i mean this also applies to friendship? like when u keep hanging out with this particular person or particular group of friends, you will surely find out more of his/their good, as well as bad points. you like him/them because you accept his/their bad points. this is how we called it 'true friendship', right?
and for sure, i'll support you for whatever decisions u make. but think through first, as in whether u want to commit yourself into another relationship yet. it's really too soon,after your last break-up. i can't say he's a nice person, just because he's nice to you. (he's nice to you because he has a motive!and that is to make you his gf) Maybe observe him with other people? does he possess these qualities which you think, make him a nice person? haha. (because from ur last relationship, you didn't know that he can be such an idiotic, petty and egoistic person before you two got together with him right?)
haha so see properly!!! time will really show a person=) wish you good luck here. if he's a real good guy,lb will be the most happy for you.
by the way, i had a friend whom i'm quite close with during the 1st 3 months in yj. SHE'S MARRIED!!! my goodness... where's my bf????? sob!!
Saturday, April 05, 2008
sun tanning/botanic gardens/minds cafe (board games cafe) - suggested by retard. aunty actually suggested ice skating/cycling/rollerblading. there was no conclusion. pls choose 1 and contact me.
hey piggo, i'm sorry, i'm skeptical it's love. i think it's more of liking him strongly, long and arduous deliberation, with romantic feelings attached enough to want to be with him. i don't think it's possible to love someone in such a short time. even i didn't really love lb until later. granted, friendships are not the same as a romantic, bgr kind of relationship. still, i don't think it's wise to say it's love after knowing a person for this while. loving someone is also accepting and embracing their flaws. at this point, i'm not sure if you even see any (major) flaws in him yet... it's too soon and if you're like me, over anticipate the 'greatness' of someone new (not just boys)- i'm quite sleepy and it's a bit hard to explain now.
all this said, good luck with him kKkkkkKkk!! i feel much better vibes coming from him than your ex. just because of the way your last relationship turned out, it doesn't mean this will be the same and i'm sure it will not be. relax, these are still the newborn days.. also, i'd like to offer you some advice you once offered me. i doubt you'll recall this, but every relationship with every person is different because every person is different. somehow it doesn't sound as eloquent as i meant it (cos i'm tired). he's not your ex, just take a chance. you have nothing to lose.
about the courtship thing. i think the 99 days tradition is er, lame - i've never heard of it, but i think it serves its' purpose. it just lets you guys get to know each other more intimately (not just on a physical sense) but in other ways as well. i'm sorry, i don't know much or anything abt this guy and yourself, so i don't know how close you guys are. then again, i'm sure you're probably thinking "yea of course we're close, or else i wouldn't consider this", but sometimes it's easy to get fooled. it's hard to tell except through time, really. anyway who says you have to take the conventional route and let the guy ask you? why not ask him? since i know you have thought over this long and hard =) after all, you were the one who told him to wait (he only had to wait for quite a short while, huh? haha), you could be the one to break the silence. he's probably not certain if you're ready yet or not and doesn't want to ask again and risk sounding too pushy. i'm sure he won't mind if you asked him ;) anyway i will support whatever decision you choose at this point, cos i think a) there's nothing to lose, b)you will make a good choice
so tired!! been up doing proj
nightxxXxXxxX
Friday, April 04, 2008
hey ppl, so we definitely meeting on next sat right?? pls do confirm with me the details cuz im kinda confused now.. haha..
anyways, i hv an announcement to make. im not sure if it's good or bad news, but i think i'm in love again. i'm quite happy to be in love again and it's actually in love with him. at the same time, i'm really scared as everything's happening too fast. part of me tries to calm myself down by telling myself that he's a good guy, but i'll remind myself again that i thought that way abt my ex-boyfriend. it seems like i'm at a loss right now. people think that both of us are already a couple but the thing is he still hasn't ask properly, and we thought of waiting until the 99-days of courtship THEN get official. it's only the 40-plus day. i'm really confused and have no idea what to do. seriously, everything's too fast. but i know i do have feelings for him already. is it love? i think so. but it's really freaking me out too.
Tuesday, April 01, 2008
Firstly, yes I do miss you guys badly. However, if i am going to meet you guys for one whole day, it cant be a weekday because I have clinicals and after my clinicals end, I have school. Right now, I am really busy, everytime my clinicals end, I need to go back and do a logbook follow by preparing for the next day. I might be bombarded with a lot of questions.
Actually, I've been doing 5 days of clinicals. It was interesting and fun of course. So many kids and so many interesting patient. I am attached with impressing physiotherapist who are skillful and effective. However, I did not perform well when assessing my patients. My therapist told me that if the mistakes are made again I may fail which I do not want. So, I really have to work hard espacially I want to work at KK. So, I wont be clumsy and nervous from now on and I shall prove them that I have my standards too.
You guys can go ahead and meet each other. I dont mind. I might pop up to see you guys. Hang in there piggo and gundu. Hard work will pay off.
Love,
dudu
gundu's back... not really
i'm still quite busy and sick of doing this.
anyway, i really, desperately, heart-wrenchingly, jaw-droppingly want to meet you guys next week. so give me a shout out to tell me when you have the time/don't have the time. just post back in response, even.
the thing is, piggo's got tests on monday and wednesday, tuition on tuesday and friday. so it seems next thursday is an idea. my project will be due next week, tests are over, but my exams are a couple of weeks around the corner. i decline to offer this week (though i would genuinely love to meet you guys ASAP) because i might have to attend extra group meetings. the deadline's drawing to a close.
i'd like this to be an ACTUAL outing, so yeah. one full day, baby.
