sun tanning/botanic gardens/minds cafe (board games cafe) - suggested by retard. aunty actually suggested ice skating/cycling/rollerblading. there was no conclusion. pls choose 1 and contact me.
hey piggo, i'm sorry, i'm skeptical it's love. i think it's more of liking him strongly, long and arduous deliberation, with romantic feelings attached enough to want to be with him. i don't think it's possible to love someone in such a short time. even i didn't really love lb until later. granted, friendships are not the same as a romantic, bgr kind of relationship. still, i don't think it's wise to say it's love after knowing a person for this while. loving someone is also accepting and embracing their flaws. at this point, i'm not sure if you even see any (major) flaws in him yet... it's too soon and if you're like me, over anticipate the 'greatness' of someone new (not just boys)- i'm quite sleepy and it's a bit hard to explain now.
all this said, good luck with him kKkkkkKkk!! i feel much better vibes coming from him than your ex. just because of the way your last relationship turned out, it doesn't mean this will be the same and i'm sure it will not be. relax, these are still the newborn days.. also, i'd like to offer you some advice you once offered me. i doubt you'll recall this, but every relationship with every person is different because every person is different. somehow it doesn't sound as eloquent as i meant it (cos i'm tired). he's not your ex, just take a chance. you have nothing to lose.
about the courtship thing. i think the 99 days tradition is er, lame - i've never heard of it, but i think it serves its' purpose. it just lets you guys get to know each other more intimately (not just on a physical sense) but in other ways as well. i'm sorry, i don't know much or anything abt this guy and yourself, so i don't know how close you guys are. then again, i'm sure you're probably thinking "yea of course we're close, or else i wouldn't consider this", but sometimes it's easy to get fooled. it's hard to tell except through time, really. anyway who says you have to take the conventional route and let the guy ask you? why not ask him? since i know you have thought over this long and hard =) after all, you were the one who told him to wait (he only had to wait for quite a short while, huh? haha), you could be the one to break the silence. he's probably not certain if you're ready yet or not and doesn't want to ask again and risk sounding too pushy. i'm sure he won't mind if you asked him ;) anyway i will support whatever decision you choose at this point, cos i think a) there's nothing to lose, b)you will make a good choice
so tired!! been up doing proj
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